What is it so special between grandparents and
grandchildren? Why the bonding them is so intense? Why grandchildren’s always
look forward towards their grandparents?
It’s true that grandparents do play a vital role in a child’s development. When the child doesn’t get that moment of attachment from their parents who are too busy with their careers, its then the children look forward to their grandparents. Grandchildren do bring meaning and joy to their grandparents’ life by allowing them to play a nurturing role and to watch them grow. On the other hand, grandparents experience an increased sense of self-worth and purpose.
Grandparents do play a vital role in the upbringing of a child by helping them understand their own
heritage and background and more importantly it does need a lot of patience to get them feel so. And not to mention that they the grandparents are equally up to the mark with a tremendous amount of patience in them.
As I have mentioned in my earlier blogs that I have recently been blessed with a little angel and I do
see a different degree of one’s satisfaction in life/happiness in my parents. Well she is now 5 months old and the day the moment she came into our life they (grandparents) got a different reason to stay happy.
Well it's hard to describe in words and can only be felt. Its that intensive. Though she is only
5 months old but the moment she wakes up every day she looks up to her grandfather who takes her for a walk, and I feel its that moment she waits eagerly every morning. I have even seen the days when probably her grandfather for some work and that’s when her mood changes drastically. Even though she is so young to understand anything but that sounds of birds chirping, dogs barking
around or kids playing in the parking zone gives her a smile that she understands and not we.
Even her bonding with her grandmother is even stronger. Right from oil massage to bathing or playing with her during the day she always look forward to her. If she has a feeling that she is being neglected she makes loud noise which enforces her to take her into the lap and play or move around. She makes various funny noises or start with giggling and that’s what my daughter loves as well. The moment she hears her voice even from the room she gets energetic and gets all her smile back.
Well she is too young to understand the various relationships but one thing for sure children doesn’t
need an explicit explanation about their grandparents. It all happens instantaneously.
Well, there would be more for me to share on this blog as and when she grows up and her bonding with her grandparents evolve es much further.
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